February 20 2017

By: Jackie Hook
Monday, February 20, 2017

As I companion people on their grief journeys, I continue to hear stories of how Love is Eternal.  A woman who “met” her late husband as she lay in bed at night. A mom who “met” her young son in moments of family gatherings. A child who “met” his mother in a rainbow. Perhaps “meeting” is too strong a word for you. But how about remembering? Finding comfort, peace and love in remembering. Remembering is so important. It is part of what we need to do to heal and reconcile with the grief - we re-member all of the broken pieces of our lives. We move from a relationship of presence to a relationship of memory with our loved ones and we continue to feel the love.

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