November 20 2017

By: Jackie Hook
Monday, November 20, 2017

I’ve had the privilege of working with families who have had the Talk of a Lifetime type conversations. In particular, I think of one family who recorded their patriarch’s response to the question, what does your perfect day look like? What a gift it was to have this recording both when he was alive and then after he died. It meant so much to everyone at the memorial service to hear this man’s very own voice sharing his wisdom. The recording will continue to provide healing for the family as they listen in the future. 

*This information first appeared in Jackie Hook's article published November 2 in the Gazette.

 

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