December 11 2016

By: Jackie Hook
Monday, December 12, 2016

I’ve had the honor of companioning people on their grief journeys at this time of year and have found some helpful tips for navigating the holiday season:

  • Have a plan.
  • Keep it simple.
  • Lower your expectations.
  • Honor your loved one.
  • Get support from family, friends, clergy, mental health counselors, grief companions, etc. 
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