December 26 2016

By: Jackie Hook
Monday, December 26, 2016

My husband and I lost our first six pregnancies. During those years, the holidays were sometimes hard. One year around that time, a box arrived at our door. Inside were all the angel ornaments my mom collected. She knew that angels were a symbol of remembrance and hope for me and she wanted us to be surrounded by them. We hung those ornaments on our tree that year and every year since. Today, our children know the story behind those angels and we all honor what they represent – it is our family tradition. I invite you to create new traditions to honor your lost loved ones.  

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