April 23 2018

By: Jackie Hook
Monday, April 23, 2018

When a drunk driver killed Paula D’Arcy’s husband and two-year-old daughter, her grief journey drew her to the ocean. In the Koch Funeral Home sponsored documentary, Voices of Grief: Honoring the Sacred Journey, Paula, a writer, retreat leader and speaker, describes where she found healing. “…it began with nature, I went right back to the thing that was the oldest comfort for me, which was the ocean. And I would lie down so I was close enough to the water so that when the tide came in it would wash over me.“

Please email me to schedule a time for me to bring this healing documentary to your group.

(First printed in the Centre Daily Times on March 21, 2018)

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