June 24 2019

By: Jackie Hook
Monday, June 24, 2019

As we’ve been saying this month, grief companions come in many forms. In addition to humans, animals can be incredible companions for us on our grief journeys. I know our dog, Lady, helped us through the years of our pregnancy losses, surgeries and recoveries. She was a steadfast comfort that helped buoy us along. And then when she died a month after our daughter was born, it felt as if she came to shine a light during a dark time and when that time was through, she moved on. We are forever grateful.

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