August 29 2016

By: Jackie Hook
Monday, August 29, 2016

A year ago I had the honor of sitting with women who had experienced pregnancy and early infant loss. We were talking about change, loss and the gifts available within them (please see last week’s post). When one woman was asked about the gifts she had received with her experience, she said she never thought of it that way before. After taking a few moments to consider, she shared some beautiful gifts. I believe hope, healing and wholeness are available, even if you have to wait for them and look very hard.

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