April 19 2021

By: Jackie Naginey Hook
Monday, April 19, 2021

“Leaning Into Sorrow” is something I’m privileged to witness on a regular basis. I companion people as they are dying, as a loved one is dying, and after a loved one has died. As I do this, I’m continually amazed by the courage and strength I see. Although they would not have chosen it, now that they are face to face with sorrow, these people have leaned into and wrestled with it. Sorrow is full of sadness, fears, anger, doubts and questions, to name a few. Leaning into it is painful but has helped these people begin to heal and find their way through the wilderness and towards more light. A supportive community can help. Please visit the Helping Grieving Hearts Heal page on our website to see what programs we offer.

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